1999年,美國心理學家約翰•高特曼(John Gottman)在華盛頓大學的愛情實驗室(Love lab)研究,提出幸福婚姻7守則(The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work)。
幸福婚姻7守則
1分享內心世界(Enhance Your Love Maps)
2培養愛慕情誼(Nurture Your Fondness and Admiration)
3小地方互相關懷(Turn Toward Each Other Instead of Away)
4接受另一半的影響(Let Your Partner Influence You)
5學習衝突新解(Solve Your Solvable Problems)
6與永久問題和平共處(Overcome Gridlock)
7創造共同的人生意義(Create Shared Meaning)
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